The journey towards personal power and peace of mind, involves many things ... but the one trait that is paramount to achieving a state of empowerment - is giving up lying.
Of course - you and I have never uttered an untruth in our lives have we? ... but that also means we come from another planet~
When a human being is born, within the first year of their life they will learn to eat, communicate ... and tell their first lie.
You could say that lying is a principal state of childhood - and remaining so is the sign of an unconscious human being ... the trait of lying in an adult can be linked directly back to how much trust was available to his life whilst growing up.
People lie for many reasons - but the practice stems predominantly from fear ...
Fear of looking bad,
Fear of Failure,
Fear of Rejection,
Fear of Losing
Fear of Loss of Face ...
Lying ranges from the pathological liar (a totally guilt free individual who can convince themselves that what they say is the truth) to the simple failure to face the truth, about an every day issue like a relationship, a job or a debt.
It can be hard to move away from dishonesty when in our modern society we even have respected lying professions - such as lawyers, marketers, politicians and accountants.
All criminal charges, financial difficulties, relationship problems and business failures have their roots in lies ... and if you want to make a fundamental change to becoming a winner in your life, it's as simple as putting aside the childhood trait of lying ...
Honesty makes good business and relationship sense - it's fool proof and fail safe. Your life becomes more relaxed, you feel more powerful, you ARE more powerful, you attract more honest people into your life - and wow, the success starts pouring in.
Honesty enters you into a state of empowerment that is well rewarded by the Laws of Attraction ... unless ...
You make the mistake of becoming a "Pious Honest Freak!"
The reformed liar can become like the reformed smoker - smashing those about them who may still have the story telling trait ...
Compulsive liars already live in a desperately sad world, suffering within a personally created hell, rejected from a happier existence until such time as they reach their own honesty awakening.
The empowerment approach is to take care of our own back yard, striving for 100% honesty in all dealings ourselves permitting others to fall down and get back up in their own time.
Amazingly as we achieve this, we gain a sixth sense of the integrity of those around us, an uncanny new ability to be able to pick out the honest and dishonest in a heart beat.
So what of encountering a really bad dude ... the type that lies, cheats and steals? ... and really doesn't care that they do ...
Well oddly enough, the minute you make a stand to be totally honest - these type of Dudes will suddenly appear in your life from no where!
Could this be a Universal Test?
This is definitely your opportunity to stand firm and move away from dishonesty. Always keep in mind that contracting with deceit on any level will be your own demise.
However if you are the one who is suffering from the emotional and relationship penalties of a not so honest existence - well now you know, you're not alone!
You can forgive yourself for being a human being and give the trait up today ... after all, all you have to lose ... is being a loser!
Well ~ Think about it!
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Those who insist they are completely honest ....
are the biggest liars of all!